To this point about anti-MQ crusaders, I think that goes with the territory in most high population servers.
Probably what bothers most folks is AFK botting/farming in competitive zones. This isn’t as much of an issue on a lower population server by virtue of having less density in some of the farming spots.
Then again, if you’re into the social aspect of EQ, lower population servers are going to mean it’s less likely to find those connections.
There are pros and cons to each choice, certainly.
My 2 redcents are: just don’t be obvious and don’t shout to the world what you’re doing. As long as it’s not blatant and obvious, it seems like most folks don’t really care.