RedBema said:
Gator,
I will apologize for my misunderstanding of your comments. I took it personally whenever you said that I was the one who did not do my homework.
I shouldn't of taken it that way and to be honest I do not know why I did. Usually, I keep my cool. I apologize for telling you to "shutup" because it was not a patient, longsuffering response the way that Jesus most likely would have handled it.
Again, I am sorry for losing my cool. It has been happening alot with me as of late in my life and I need to figure out why.
Best Wishes,
RedBema
Red,
I am truly sorry if I said anything that you took as an insult. It wasn't my intention. It may be difficult for you to believe of someone who is not a Christian, but I do not wish to hurt anyone. If I came across as harsh, I assure you, I was just typing in a hurry and didn't give as much thought to my wording as I should have. The "do your homework" thing seems to be a big thing for you - I was responding to an earlier post which used that phrase; I didn't coin it. In fact, I was using it not to insult you, but to emphasize that it was unfair to assume unilaterally that someone who disagreed with you hadn't done their homework. I am sure, reading how I posted, I didn't make that clear, but I don't claim to be perfect, either

Far from it! I do strive to become a better person every day, though, and it hurts me that I may have hurt you. I believe we are all connected, my closest thing to a religious belief, and that it's important to be gentle with each other. I fell short of that here, obviously. I like to debate things, because I learn so much from people who disagree with me, and I'm always willing to see things from another viewpoint. I'm so used to doing this in RL with people who know me that I probably didn't consider how I might sound to someone who doesn't know me.
I do not desire to be personally at odds with anyone. My best friend is strongly pro-choice, and in fact had an abortion and feels she made the completely correct decision. I'm as pro-life as it gets; I was a pregnant teenager who didn't have an abortion and I am convinced I made the correct decision. Nonetheless, she's my best friend, and we love each other. I know you can have different viewpoints and not be personally disdainful of the other. That's apparently not working here, though.
I formally retire from the discussion. I would like to apologize to anyone I may have offended or who may have felt personally attacked. I do not apologize for my opinions, merely for any wording which may have come across as a personal attack. It is my devout wish to discuss ideas in a debate, not resort to ad hominem tactics. If I failed to do so or anyone perceives that I did, I apologize.
I'm leaving the site as well, canceled my subscription on PayPal, so don't bother with any more angry PMs.
I wish everyone here the best and happiest life, and may you all kick ass at the games of your choice! Live long and prosper.
I'm gonna go enjoy some more March Madness. Go Gators! Go Running Rebels!