@Rooster I'm very interested in discussing what you consider more versitile/robust. It seemed that EQBC was the place to learn how all this works before I jumped into the wonderful world of macros. I did go out to a lonely area and turn on kissassist to see what it would do. From the little I experienced, it is amazing, but I had just loaded MQ, had read very little at that point, and had to gate out to get it to stop!
There is a lot to take in, so I'm taking things one step at a time to keep my stress levels manageable. I've been reading posts until I'm cross-eyed and going off on wild post tangents during the whole process. I have pages of notes of things that I want to go back to. In between, I need some game time too!
I got MQNav running first because EQ's lovely follow system is what initiated the search that eventually lead to RedGuides. I spent an entire evening creating meshes before I knew that you could dl them. I'm not upset about this as I learned a lot about zones and a little about the mesh generator.
Back when I used to play, I used the SARs UI. I was ecstatic to find that it was still maintained when I came back. A post above mention buttons that were placed on the group window by MQTargetInfo. I removed those buttons because they didn't really jive with SARs.
Then I learned MQ2Hud. I pretty much feel completely comfortable with that one. I have my hud exactly how I want it (tho I'm still looking for code to let you know if the target sees invs)
Now, I've got EQBC running as a service and everyone is connected. So now I am trying to set things up so that I don't have to Alt+Tab all the time like I have been doing. I've found many macros that I can use to make things easier and last night I finally got to actually run a GMM with my newly created broadcast macros and things went exceptionally well. I did notice that sometimes things don't fire consistently and some other bugginess, but it's nothing that I can't live with right now.
I haven't decided what my next step will be, and I'm certainly open to suggestions there. Thanks again for all the responses and help. I look forward to learning more.