Welcome to Redguides! This is going to be a game changer for you.
Take it slow, and don't overwhelm yourself out the gate.
There are
Plugins and there are
Macros.
Worth taking a look through some of them to see how they work.
The first thing I would suggest getting set up is
EQBC
Here are some hotkeys I use with EQBC to make boxing easier/quick
I use a few like:
Move to me - /bca //moveto loc ${Me.Y} ${Me.X} ${Me.Z}
Follow
/bcga //camphere off
/pause 6, /bcga //mqp on
/pause 3, /bct BARDNAME //twist off
/bcga //dismount
/bcg //stick ID ${Me.ID} uw 5
Unfollow
/bcga //mqp off
/bcg //stick off
/bcga //camphere on
Double invis
/bcg //tar ${Me.ID}
/bcga //alt act 1210
/bcga //alt act 1212
/bcg = your group minus the person giving the command
/bcga = your group plus the person giving the command
/bca = everyone connected to eqbc minus the person giving the command
/bcaa = everyone connected to eqbc including the person giving the command
/bct = send to specific character - ex.
/bct bob /
/mqp on --- this would send a message to bob telling him to execute
/mqp on
Second thing I would do is get KA setup for each of the toons I wasn't actively playing. For me I use my necro as my main toon, so the rest of the group is using KA (altho I use Autocleric for my cleric, but I manually pull with my necro and dps etc.
Here is the link to the KA 10 version
https://www.redguides.com/forums/threads/55056-KissAssist-10-0-4-Released-06-29-2017 (worth reading through to see changes and questions people had)
Here is the link to the .ini section
https://www.redguides.com/community/threads/29000-Compiled-INI-List